WHEN bed action has been felt boring, surely you would think to make it different. The question that may come to mind is how you touch each other, the position you try, and you focus on body parts. But it turns out, there are other things that are key for sex feels vibrant. What is it?
The words that come out of the mouth when having sex may often be overlooked. In fact, a series of words that came out can make intercourse was getting hot.
"To talk or hear erotic words that stimulate dopamine transmission plays a major role in sexual arousal. They can improve the emotional and physical intensity of the experience," says Ian Kerner, PhD, author Passionista.
There was a great idea. But, what do you say to not look ridiculous in front of husband?
"Most women are not sure what sounded sexy, so they do not say anything," says Logan Levkoff, Ph.D., Sexologist in New York City. As a result, you lose the fun.
n fact, these things can bring pleasure to the him or herself
For her pleasure
"I'm coming." So simple, so powerful. This sentence was so beloved man.
"Being a great lover is a major source of pride for men. Tell him about your orgasm is the highest award for men," says Levkoff.
These words can be evidence that he managed to satisfy you. Moreover, he gets so excited and you are out of control. Announcing the arrival of your orgasm is also a significant moment that enhance pleasure for both of you.
"Plus, because most men are ready to climax before the woman. This gave him permission to come," said Kerner.
For your enjoyment
Kerner recommends that you threw words like, "I like it when you (verb) to do this to me (the body)," such as "I like it when you rub your thighs / neck kissed / licked her breasts."
"Verbalizing the sensation of bringing your attention to it, which reinforces the enjoyment that you experience," explains Kerner.
Sentences such as the phrase you're enjoying delicious food. Talking about how delicious it can be created, even more delicious.
"These words can also help you to keep enjoying the pleasures of lovemaking delights at the time," said Kerner.
If your mind starts to wander or you're stressed about other things while making love, then describes what happens inside you makes you stay focused on what you feel.
"This shows him that the couple doing something right," says Levkoff.
And, once he knows you like it, then he probably would do it again and again